
I called him. He didn't answer. I hung up. I called back. He didn't answer. I called back. I hung up. I told myself to wait for his call. I texted. I bbm'd. I called the house. I called the friend. I called him. He didn't answer. I hung up...
Like, why? Why would I ever stalk someone. He has Caller ID. He knows I called. And if he hasn't called back he CLEARLY must be doing something. Now I have caller's remorse and I look like a fool when he calls back in a panic to make sure everything is ok and all I have to say is, "I just wanted to say hey." The worst part is that since I'm being a pyscho, I have now set precedent for my pyscho ways. Now when the phone rings off the hook, there is no fear of emergency- Its just me being a raging lunatic- as usual.
Im learning that in this whole thing called "long distance love" you really have to learn to play the game in a whole new way. Which is REALLY hard for me to coordinate with my usual ride-or-die schema. Long distance puts all of that on hold and forces you to be the best you can with unfamiliar and extremely abstract expectations. Nobody knows the rules for long distance- the acceptable number of calls to be placed before worry sets in, the exact number of visits required, etc. You just kind of play as you go and you have to decide what works best for you. Misguided longings are a necessary evil- he has to understand that too. I dont mean it, I just havent figured out a better way yet. In the meantime, you're going to have to excuse my apparent lunacy. Chalk it up to: I just miss you.
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